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TEACHING YOUR KIDS TO TAKE CARE OF THEMSELVES

TEACHING YOUR KIDS TO TAKE CARE OF THEMSELVES

TEACHING YOUR KIDS TO TAKE CARE OF THEMSELVES

Kids and parents so often clash on what the kids are “big enough” for. You don’t want to be overprotective. You don’t want to spend the better part of your life picking up after your kids, long after they should have been capable of cleaning their own rooms. At the same time, you don’t want your children to cut themselves using sharp knives they weren’t ready to handle, or even to embarrass themselves fumbling through a writing workshop where everyone else is two years older.

What are the best ways to help your children learn life skills?

Start Early and Start Small

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Preschoolers are typically eager to pitch in with “grown-up” chores, which can create a dilemma for parents. If you just say, “You’re too little,” they may lose all interest and then be resistant in future years when you want their help. If you give them free rein, they may make a complete mess of the job and leave you with triple work doing it over.

So don’t wait too long to start thinking about little things the kids can help with. Even three-year-olds can:

Put their own clothes in the laundry hamper

Dust small desks and tables

Pick up papers or magazines

Carry unbreakable dishes to the dishwasher

Hold the dustpan while you sweep

As soon as the kids show interest in your chores, invite them to help out on a level that suits them. Once they master that, introduce them to the next level up.

Know What Skills Everyone Should Master Before Finishing High School

Too many eighteen-year-olds are moving into their first dorm room or apartment without knowing how to do much more than drive a car and do basic cleaning.

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Before your kids reach the age of independence, guide them in learning how to also:

Do their own laundry

Shop for groceries and cleaning supplies

Cook/prepare a basic meal

Balance a budget (including putting money into savings and keeping credit card bills low)

Make their own doctor and dentist appointments

Keep cars and appliances properly maintained

Plan a long-term career/vocation

Handle (and dress for) a job application and interview

Resolve a difference of opinion

Give the Kids Some Say in What They’re Ready For

Think twice before automatically saying, “You’re too young” when a child expresses desire to try something new. Barring serious danger to life, limb, property, or budget, and assuming no blatant violation of law or house rules, there’s rarely any real reason kids shouldn’t experiment with whatever they wish. Even if their attempts end in a mess, the more valuable lesson is: It’s better to try and fall short than never try at all.

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Emphasize Cooperation as a Way of Life

Make it clear that:

Everyone has valuable contributions to make to the household—and the world.

Everyone occasionally has to do tedious or personally inconvenient things in the interest of the greater good. The all-around benefits are their own reward.

The happiest people are not those who get everything easily, but those who keep learning and maturing all their lives!

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Today's affirmation:
"I CARE ENOUGH TO TRANSFORM THE GOOD INTO THE GREAT"

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600 Main Street
Richmond, TX 77469
Tel: (281) 344-1291
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